I am now 3-1/2 weeks post surgery(yea!) and 4 weeks since the last time my house was really cleaned.
All this to say, I have had to learn to tolerate some things that quite honestly really aren't all that important in the grand scheme of life. I've had to just look away and realize my and DH's limitations. Quite honestly (and sure in retrospect), I think it's been good for me to go through this and really focus on what's important and not on what isn't done. My list doesn't need every box to be checked each day. So for now, I am putting it in perspective(a topic for another post), and choosing to erase the "in" and am practicing tolerance. :)